Great for beginners or those out of practice or simply uptight moments. I\'ve used this on myself off/on as needed for five years now, especially for when I\'m tense or not relaxed enough.
OK - we are all adults here, so we know that pain is an indicator, right? Well, this product deadens that pain a LOT - which can be bad if you use too much of it and are \'expanding\' your horizons if you catch my drift. This is for your sphincter, male or female... for you NOVICES, it is VERY IMPORTANT that you not lose all sensitivity to pain as you may be with someone who\'s either not lubed up well enough or simply tearing you which is highly dangerous. As a newer bi male, I speak from experience - using too much of this not only takes away your awareness of pain, butt also robs you of your pleasure.
**Make sure you use a high quality WATER-based (or condom/toy-friendly) anal lube to go with this product as ANAL-ESE is NOT a lubricant replacement. It\'s amazing stuff that truly does its job - unlike Washington - lol. Play safe and enjoy :)